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How to Tell if a Guy Doesn’t Like You by Asking This One Question

How to Tell if a Guy Doesn’t Like You by Asking This One Question

Life would be a hell of a lot easier if you knew that a guy liked or didn’t like you. You wouldn’t have to put up with the bullshit it takes to figure out if someone likes you or not. No mind games, risk, putting yourself out there, or looking like a fool if he doesn’t feel the same way. Well, you’re in luck because I am about to show you a simple way on how to get a guy to like you. Check out how to tell if a guy doesn’t like you in these ways.

Why it works so well

I can’t believe it works as well as it does for being as simple as simple as it is. I catch myself changing my answer constantly if the girl I like asks me the question. So, why does it work so well? Why are men fooled by this one question without realizing it?

The Job of the Masculine Energy

If you follow me long enough, you probably heard me tell you that the job of the masculine energy is to provide and satisfy a woman. The reason for this is he obviously needs a mate and women will only go towards guys who can offer some value. More importantly, if he gives the wrong answer (which he won’t because he likes you. Therefore we change and mold our answer to the correct one), he knows he’s out because he ostracized you and pushed you out of the category. Logically, if you like someone why would you do that? Hence him having to give you the right answer if he likes you.

Reciprocity and Affection

It’s common sense to want to be liked by those who we like. This causes the man to reveal his feelings for you if he has them. The right answer will include you in it. The wrong answer (if he doesn’t like you) will not since he doesn’t really care if he gains your affection or not. So What is the one question you need to ask?

What do you look for physically in a girl/woman?

That’s it.

So why are you asking about physicality? Simply, it’s visual therefore factual to an extent. If you have short blonde hair, blue eyes, and are 5’8 tall, and he says two of those things, you bet your ass he’s doing it on purpose. In contrast, if you talk about characteristics or traits that he likes, that can be subjective. You have no idea of knowing whether you are on the same page or not.

He’s going to answer this several ways:

  1. He doesn’t like you and will say whatever.
  2. He will straight up include you in everything making it obvious he likes you (on purpose)
  3. He’s going to hint at it with things like, “Well, I like dark eyes but I am starting to like green/blue eyes” or “I like brunettes but blondes are nice too. They’re growing on me.”
  4. He’s going to beat around the bush and make a joke about it such as making it obvious that he is talking about you by naming your characteristics and then look at you and laugh.

Is this an absolute way of figuring it out? Not at all. But I think it’s a great indicator to find out a little about where he stands with you.


Let me know in the comments below what you think.

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  1. Lois Crowley

    February 3, 2017 at 12:54 am

    Well everything you said made perfect sense. With all that said I still didn’t exactly know what the question was. So if you could please clarify that.


    • Elliot

      February 9, 2017 at 3:45 am

      “What do you look for in a girl physically?”


  2. Heidi Horak

    February 6, 2017 at 6:16 am

    Wow, this is the first thing I’ve seen from you where I think you are a bit off! This is a far too obvious question, and throwing it to a discussion of your physical features? How awkward is that? You could employ the same tactic in a much more stealthy way. For example, you tell him a few things you’ve done over the past year (or month or whatever) and see what he says HE has done. . . OR tell him the types of music you enjoy and see if his response echos yours. Besides – really – can’t you just TELL? I can tell in the first 5 minutes. And if it is there in the first 5 minutes, then it is THERE and you don’t have to worry about THAT. Now it’s just the rest of navigating new relationship, decisions, compromises, talking. The tough stuff. That’s why I have this fabulous dating coach – do you know him? Goes by “Worlds Favorite Dating Coach” Elliot Scott.


    • Elliot

      February 9, 2017 at 3:45 am

      Thanks a lot for hurting my feelings 🙁 lol. Thank you for loving my work


  3. Kim Lec

    February 25, 2017 at 9:18 am

    What’s goin’ on, Everybody? … Some really Smart Guy’s birthday’s goin’ on, Everybody !!! Happy Happy Happy Birthday, you wonderful dude !!! Love, love, love, your Work !!!


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What's going on everybody? It's your favorite dating coach, Elliot Scott! I am a 29 year old who lives in Boise ID spending most of my time doing what I love most: helping people find quality relationships