Sex – Elliot Scott Coaching

Have you ever wondered what do guys think of you after you sleep with them? It’s only natural to obsess over it, especially if you like the guy. Sleeping with someone is an intimate act. Often, you might feel vulnerable and insecure about how the guy you have slept with felt. Well, you might be surprised to learn that men can be just as insecure as you. In the past, I have felt so anxious after sleeping with a woman, wondering if she had an amazing time with me. In this article, I’m going to reveal to you what guys are thinking after sleeping with you. What do guys think of you after you sleep with them? What a guy thinks about after having sex with you is based on context and what he's initially looking for. If he wants a relationship, he's going to think only good things. If he doesn't want anything serious but sex made the context/vibe between you two feel serious, he may pull away. MUST-READ: How To Ask A Guy What His Intentions Are Without Pushing Him Away There are tons of things that a guy might be thinking about after he has slept with you. These things can include: His performanceHow you made him feelWhether he should stay the nightWhat he should do the morning afterWhen he should call you againWhether he regretted it or notAnd more If a guy is serious about you, then making love to you is an important milestone for him. However, you should remember that: Men are more in the moment type of creatures. This fact might lead to some misunderstandings that might give you false hopes. For a guy, having sex with a woman is all about his validation. MUST-READ: 5 Genius Ways To Get A Guy Begging To Be Your Boyfriend (These Are Powerful) A guy’s thoughts after sleeping with you can reveal his true intentions towards you. Let me go into detail, what he might be thinking after your night together. He is Thinking About What You Just Did Sex is an important asset for any man. When he gets to this point with you, he is satisfying one of his most basic needs. Your other assets when it comes to physical contact include: ValidationAttentionEgo boostComfortSecurity This is the reason why one of the most common thoughts that guys have after sleeping with you is the sex you just had. Guys like to replay the memory of getting physical with you and enjoy the feeling from the beginning. Their basic instinct is taking over, allowing them to focus on the pleasure they have just experienced. No matter, whether the guy wants a relationship or just sex, he will think about it. He is Anxious About How He Made You Feel You might be surprised to learn this but guys actually feel anxious about pleasing you. Sex is a shared experience and both parties should get pleasure from it. After the joy and excitement of sleeping with you has died down, then the guy will start wondering how he made you feel. A big part of this is whether you had an orgasm or not. There are several reasons why he is anxious about this. Namely: He is a caring and empathetic guy that wants to offer you what he received from youHe is interested in you and might be actually wanting this to turn into a relationshipHe has a large ego and wants to know that he is amazing at pleasing women Regardless of the reason, this is what guys think of you after you sleep with them. He is Wondering if He Should Stay the Night Guys are usually not that in tune with their feelings compared to women. Therefore, after sex, they just want to take a shower, drink some beer, or just fall asleep. On the other hand, women want to cuddle and get to know each other. They are more analytical and want to explore their feelings. If a guy is thinking about staying the night with you after sleeping with you, then he is a keeper. He has conquered what he was desiring, and now, he wants to get closer to you. Spending the night together after having sex is the first step towards knowing you. He is Worried About Contraception No matter if you had a one-night stand or you are at the beginning of your relationship, the guy will worry about contraception. If you had sex without protection, then he will start wondering whether you are on the pill. Guys are impulsive and will not think about it beforehand. However, they will worry about it as it might lead to unwanted responsibilities. Let me tell you, that this is a common thought that men have after sleeping with you but they are too ashamed to ask you. He is Wondering How He Compares with Your Exes There is one thing that I ask women to remember all the time: Men are very egotistical. So, they will wonder if they have offered you the best experience of your life. Guys will not just want you to have an orgasm, they want you to be completely mind-blown by their performance. There is not a better ego booster for a man than knowing that they are the best you have ever had. This is an important asset that the guy should get from you, regardless of your relationship with him. Moreover, the guy’s validation won’t stop at the physical feelings. He will want to conquer you both physically and emotionally. He is Planning What You Will Have for Breakfast When I am sleeping with a woman I really like and want to begin a relationship with, I always think of certain things. For example, I’m thinking: How it will feel to sleep with her in my armsHow she will look when we wake upWhen I should see her again When a guy is interested in you, sleeping with you is just the beginning. After the action, he will start planning ahead. The most immediate thought will be the morning after. If a guy is planning what you will have for breakfast in the morning, then you should make sure to hold on to him. He is Worried About How He Looked Sleeping with someone is a different experience for every person. Every guy has different kinks and he might even be interested in some taboo things. Some of these taboos might be: BDSMAnalRoleplayingRaceplayingDirty talkingSex in publicAnd more During your time together, he might ask you to do some of these things. At the time, he will enjoy sleeping with you. However, afterward, he will start worrying about how he appeared to you. If a guy wants a future with you, then he will want you to like him, no matter the occasion. Since sex is a big part of every healthy relationship, he needs to feel desirable despite his kinks. MUST-READ: Why Do Guys Like Being Called Daddy During Sex? An In-Depth Look He is Regretting His Impulse Sometimes a guy will sleep with you only because he wants to have sex. It is a hard truth but it will save you from a lot of misunderstandings. If your night together wasn’t a part of a casual hookup, then he might have acted out of his impulse. In this case, the most prominent feeling that the guy will have is regret. This feeling might come from various reasons. For example: He might like hanging out with youHe only sees you as a friendHe was too drunk to hold himself backYou have common acquaintances and it might get awkward He is Hoping that It Also Meant Nothing to You (If He Didn't Like You) Many guys are interested in just having casual sex but they will not take the time to explain what they want beforehand. Instead, they will sleep with you and just hope that you aren’t interested in a relationship either. This usually happens because the guy doesn’t want to lose your assets, while at the same time, he doesn’t want to commit. If he’s treating you like a girlfriend but not committing, you’d be a fool to stick around if he’s treating you bad. He knows this to be the case. So, if a guy keeps sleeping with your bus he doesn’t seem to want a relationship, it is best to let him go. MUST-READ: 5 Untold Reasons He Treats You Like A Girlfriend But Won’t Commit He Wants Another Round If sleeping together felt amazing for both of you, then the guy will definitely want a round two. This doesn’t necessarily mean that it will happen the same night. However, a guy will think about having sex with you again, if he is given the chance. Now, you know what do guys think of you after you sleep with them. What is their most surprising thought to you? Leave a comment below to get the conversation going.